Friends
Sunday, June 12, 2005
"Friends",
what does it actually means to you?
In simple words.. friends are people who are part of your life in hardship as well as happy times..
they are there to give a
listening ear,
encouragement and support,
cheering you up,
laugh at ur "not so funny" jokes,
be there whenever you need them,
as well as when their lifes is filled with happiness...
but often people take advantage of "Friends".. they usually make use of them, they will always find them only when they are in need and if they are not having any problems, off you go from their lifes.. the kind of "so-called" friends should not be in our lifes in the first place at all.they ought to be ignored.. even though sometimes people like me doesn't think like that..
people often say.. thought you have lots of friends whenever i find them.. its true that i have lots of friends, but the friends that i have is like they are not what i expect them of.. they are just there to suck my blood.. make use of me as in.. they will find me when they have no friends, boyfriends, girlfriends, when they are in trouble or only when they have hot stories to tell the whole world then they find me.. what is the hell man..i don't like this kind of "Friends".. i'm better off withoout them in my life...
seriously, i'm a person who treasure friendship alot.. if a person befriend me.. i would do the likewise for them to.. if they don't respect for my friendship or even me as their friend.. why they should i waste time on this kind of people.. sometimes despite knowing that they can't be bothered with me i still try my best to stay where i am.. but when i really feel that they can't be bothered with me.. i, myself take a step back.. it's no point me wanting and treasuring their friensdhip when they don't give a damn on mine.... in friendship there's always ups and down.. it's we who perceive things.. it also means to give and take.. when one do mistakes, we as a friend should tell them.. but sometimes despite telling them nicely.. they don't like so i really think that they are worth to receive my friendship..
isn't it funny... they after a long time of disappearance then they come back to find me.. to me i feel these kind of friends if they have done that to you once.. they can do it again.. despite them saying.. i won't.. i really regret losing your friendship.. to me all that is too late.. when i'm there you simply can't be bothered with me.. but why now you wanna enter my life again and make it miserable.. sorry but i don't need you.. you and your friendship can go to hell...
usually, i'm the type who will always give in.. despite me knowing that i'm not in the wrong.. but now i won't cause' there are alot of other people around me who knows to appreciate me and my friendship.. so i don't need to worry about them, those who doesn't want my friendship.. simply because they don't deserve me, my kindness, my friendship.. they will definitely regret it after they have lost it.. then in that case.. its too late to regret it.. i won't entertain to such friends.. they deserve it man..
ZealouZallureD on 8:15 AM
