The Things I've Learned from the Past...
Tuesday, June 28, 2005
When I think of my past LoVe, I may view it as a
failure.
But when I find a new LoVe, I'll view the past as a
teacher.
In the game of LoVe, it doesn't really matter who
won or who lost.
What is important is I know when to hold on &
when to let go!
You know you really LoVe someone when you
want him or her to be happy,
even if their happiness means that you're not part
of it.
Everything happens for the best.
If the person I LoVe doesn't LoVe me back,
I won't be afraid to LoVe someone else again,
for I'll never know unless I give it a try.
You'll never LoVe a person you LoVe unless you
risk for LoVe.
LoVe strives in hurting.
If I don't get hurt, I don't learn how to LoVe.
LoVe doesn't hurt all the time.
Though the hurting is still there to test me,
to help me grow.
I won't find LoVe, I'll let LoVe find me.
That's why it's called falling in LoVe because you
don't force yourself to fall.
You just fall.
I cannot finish a book without closing it's chapters.
If I want to go on, then I have to leave the past as I
turn the pages.
LoVe is not destroyed by a single failure or won by
a single caress.
It is a lifetime venture in which we are always
learning,discovering & growing.
The greatest irony of LoVe is letting go when you
need to hold on & holding on when you need to let
go.
We lose someone we LoVe only when we are
destined to find someone else who can LoVe us
even more than we can LoVe ourselves.
On falling out of LoVe, I'll take some time to heal &
then get back on the horse.
But I won't ever make the same mistake of riding
the same one that threw me the first time.
To LoVe is to risk rejections,
to live is to risk dying,
to hope is to risk failure.
But risk must be taken because the greatest
hazard in life is risk nothing!
To reach for another is to risk involvement, to
expose your feelings is to expose true self,
to LoVe is to risk not to be LoVed in return.
How to define LoVe:
fall but do not stumble,
be constant but not too persistent,
share & never be unfair,
understand & try not to demand,
hurt but never keep the pain.
LoVeis like a knife.
It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful
images into the soul that always last for a lifetime.
LoVe is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling.
It should inspire us & give us joy & strength.
But sometimes, the things that give us joy can
also hurt us in the end.
LoVing people means giving them the freedom who
they choose to be & where they choose to be.
For all the heartaches & the tears,
for gloomy days & fruitless years,
I should give thanks, for I know, that these were the
things which helped me grow.
LoVing someone means giving him the freedom to
find his way,
whether it leads towards me or away from me.
LoVe is a painful risk to take but the risk must be
taken no matter how scary or painful,
for only then you'll experience the fullness of
humanity & that is LoVe.
Only LoVe can hurt your heart, fill you with desire
& tear you apart.
Only LoVe can make you cry & only LoVe knows
why.
If you're not ready to cry,
if you're not ready to take the risk,
if you're not ready to feel the pain,
then you're not ready to fall in LoVe.
There was a time in our lives when we became
afraid to fall in LoVe coz every time we do, we get
hurt,then I figured that's why it's called falling in
LoVe.
When you decide to LoVe, allow it to grow.
When you promise to LoVe,refuse to let it die!
ZealouZallureD on 9:52 AM
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